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The Horse: The Alpha Mare Speaks!

The Horse: The Alpha Mare Speaks!

About Kimberly

I’m a life-long horsewoman. I learned at a young age on my grandparents farm that with enough grain and baling twine, you can catch any horse. Both of my daughters share in my love of horses, especially the oldest one, who now lives in Wyoming with her two Quarter Horses and her mule (which was her college graduation present from me along with this tidbit: “This mule can teach you things about life that I can’t.”). I’m an officer and founding member of the 501(c)(3) Friends of the Lexington Mounted Police, was a founding member of the Kentucky Committee of the Thoroughbred Retirement Foundation, and am on the board of the American Horse Publications national organization of equine print and electronic media. I live on a small farm in Kentucky with my musician husband, Ben, two Miniature Horses, a Miniature Donkey (a rescue), goats, chickens, dogs, and cats. My oldest daughter has promised me a new riding horse this summer. Stay tuned.

Fall is nearly gone, and winter is coming fast. November will be here before you know it. That means Thanksgiving and a time of reflection.

My reflections lately have been centered around family, work, the farm, the future. I'm sure if my Dad were still alive, he would have shaken his head at all of the economic problems this country has faced in the past year. He was a child of the Great Depression, World Wars, and Eastern Kentucky. He was one of the “don't buy it if you can't afford it" generation. I believe this past year has pushed more of us into that mindset; avoid debt—save until you can afford it.

But one thing that has come to mind is occasionally there are times in your life you have to take that big step into the darkness while holding on to faith that things will improve. That faith has me believing we are headed for more secure financial times, albeit perhaps with a little more reflection on practicality before spending. That faith had me horse shopping, and horse buying.

Horse Shopping Means Swapping

In order to have time for a new horse of my own, I'm going to have to “swap out" some of the money and time I'm spending elsewhere in order to keep my equestrian passion alive and well.

I think that's what a lot of people have done this past year. I was surprised when we did our recent magazine survey to see that while people's incomes and net worth had declined (as expected), the average number of horses owned held solid.

Our readers weren't willing to give up their horses despite a decline in their financial status. So, they had to find ways to swap out money and time.

The one thing everyone has in common is 24 hours in a day. But, how do we find time to devote to our horses?

We all know we spend 80-90% of our “horse" time on the ground doing things (mucking, grooming, mowing, cleaning) rather than riding. But for a horse person, that's part of the passion. (Okay, hauling buckets of water through freezing weather because the hydrant froze--again--isn't really a positive, but it certainly takes passion to do that!)

We find time by evaluating what we are doing and by learning to accept we can't do everything. Prioritizing is key.

For some people this past year has meant giving up some or all of their horses. But I hope as time and resources return that they, too, will return to the fold of horse owners.

In the meantime, keep your eyes open for a good horse that needs a home. I'll have mine soon, but perhaps you can find your next horse.

And have some fun swapping out your time and finances. It doesn't have to be a burden. I found that not dusting the furniture as often doesn't really cause the roof to collapse (contrary to what my mother believes).

Have a great fall, and share with us how you have made the "swap" to have money and time to spend with your horses.

Comments

Keeping my one mule and one horse is my priority.It took me along time to acquire all the things that go along with them. Saddles that fit them and me. A nice horse trailer that is safe for the road. and expensive saddle pads to make sure the equine are comfortable. even if we do not ride like we use

to, we enjoy watching them out in the pasture.They are part of the family and if we would let them go, they would not be in a environment and taken care of like we give them. They give us something to walk up to in the morning and a meaning to all the madness in this world.I would have great regrets if I would not have horses. What would I put in the pasture that gives me more pleasure then horses?



leann 21 Oct 2009 1:11 PM

My "regular" job (read, not my preferred job!) is in the real estate industry, and that is, as we know, currently in a state of flux and uncertainty.  I am fortunate to work as a receptionist for a stable R.E. company that values its employees, but this has not always been the case.  

Giving up my horses has never been a option for me.  Not now, not in the 30 years that I have been in this industry.  Their daily care is my chance for meditation, a morning ride a theraputic start to an otherwise hectic day.  When I was treated for depression many years ago I was motivated by my therapist asking me, "if you give up on yourself who is going to take care of the needs of your horses?"  

Over the years I've learned to budget, to economize, to search for the best deals in feed and supplies.  I have tack that works and don't cave into the latest fads any longer.  The horse trailer that I have now was abandoned - new - at a foreclosure property.  It will have an active life with me. However I am also  fortunate to own a home at the edge of the Arizona desert which provides ample opportunities for long daily trail rides.

And in my personal life I do without - just this morning I found a beauty collage where I can get my hair done for a fraction of the going price.  We don't eat-out or go to movies or concerts (our entertainment is usually a local horse show or cattle event where we can enjoy our own horses). I find great clothes deals at the Goodwill.

To summarize: horses are not a "hobby" with me or a passing fancy; they are a way of life.  And after all they have done for me (including, literally, saving my life) the least I can do for them now is also the best that I have to give.  



Dawn 23 Oct 2009 1:36 PM

I have always been cheap about stuff and have spent on experiences. So, for ex., I can make or buy a less expensive piece of equipment but will pay for the DVD or the lesson (good education is always worth the price!)

   And finally, I have rediscovered Fluffernutter sandwiches. And it hasn't hurt me one bit to eat less!



Karen 25 Oct 2009 9:58 PM

I gave up horses 19 years ago when I got married and started a family. This year, in the midst of the recession, my wonderful husband surprised me with my first horse at the age of 43. We gave up "luxuries" like dinner out every weekend, movies in the theater. My black saddle doesn't match my brown bridle. I wear paddock boots and half chaps over my breeches. I'll gladly take the "cuts" in other areas to keep my horse. You are all right. Stall cleaning means time to think and unwind. At my age, I have no designs on showing or ribbons. I'm just happy to spend time, ride, play and relax with my horse.



MJ 28 Oct 2009 10:28 PM